What is your mission in life? are you surviving or thriving? do you show others compassion and do you have passion for something? can you display a good sense of humor and do you have your own style?



There are some things you will never understand!!! Stop trying!

10 things you will never understand

  1. How it feels to be plus size
  2. how it feels to be a single mother
  3. how it feels to never put yourself first
  4. What child abuse does for trust.
  5. what strong black woman really means
  6. How life is for a single black female with morals.
  7. how it feels to raise 2 boys alone!
  8. How it feels to chase your dreams but it never seems in reach
  9.  how it feels to not be able to be yourself because it’s not the norm
  10. How it feels to love so hard it hurts!

Rain boots and Flower Arrangements

So this week last year  9/12 to be exact,  I saw a flower arrangement in a pair of rain boots in the lobby and was distracted.  I was distracted from everything that was depressing me in my life.  I sat in the lobby waiting to have an assessment crying profusely and literally couldn’t stop.  Tissue after tissue… The tears wouldn’t stop.  But I already knew what was wrong with me… I was having a mental health crisis.  As I sat there crying I started to think how beautiful the arrangement was instead of how awful things were going in my life, I started to think of ways I myself could make that arrangement, how much would it cost, I knew what boots I wanted to use already… Different thoughts started to fill my mind.  I was temporarily DISTRACTED. Now if this could just go in 24/7 I  may have been able to move on.  But it wouldn’t and it didn’t.

First post jitters

Hello,  if anyone out there has survived child abuse I’m looking to start a motivational, inspirational, empowering blog page to help young adults realize their full potential!!!! Let’s go!!!